Episode 33: How to Create a Life That You Love as Your Highest Contribution to Humanity with Felicia Searcy

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In this episode you’ll hear:

  • Felicia’s 6-Step Paint-by-Numbers Spiritual Success System.
  • How we can use Universal Laws and the Universal Field to create the life of our dreams.
  • Why she thinks that not having time for visioning is like saying you don’t have time for gravity — and why consistency is so important for manifestation.
  • Why she believes that every word in your vision matters — and why she encourages you to calibrate each word so it carries even more power to magnetize your desires to you.
  • What she feels waters down our vision (and how we can recognize it).

About Felicia Searcy

For over 20 years, Felicia has worked with people from all walks of life who are seeking the spiritual side of success. As a highly sought-after international speaker, she has shared the stage with powerhouse leaders like International Speaker, Mary Morrissey; Founder and CEO of eWomenNetwork, Sandra Yancey; and international motivational speaker, Les Brown. Felicia Searcy’s mastery is helping people create a life they love.  Her purpose is her passion: to empower you to discover and express your best self as you create the life that you love. She is an award-winning transformational coach, international speaker, author, and minister who has helped thousands create a path for living their dream life.

If you’re inspired by this episode, I’d love to hear your biggest Aha! moments. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your social media and tag me, @christieturley!

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Transcript:

Christie:
Welcome to today’s mind muse podcast. I’m your host Christie Turley. And today I’m speaking with Felicia Searcy we’re speaking on the recipe to create a life that you Love as your highest contribution to Humanity. We’ll talk about Felicia Searcy six Step Paint by Numbers Spiritual Success System how you can use Universal Laws and the Universal Field to create the life of your dreams, why she thinks she’s not having time for visioning. We’ll talk about what that means is like saying you don’t have time for gravity. We’ll also talk about many other things regarding visioning and manifesting your desires.

Christie:
So for over 20 years of Felicia has worked with people from all walks of life who are seeking the spiritual side of success. She is a highly sought after international speaker and has shared the stage with some impressive people. Like Mary Morrissey Sandra Yancey who is the CEO of eWomenNetwork and international motivational speaker Les Brown Felicia is mastery is helping people create a life. They loved Her purpose is her passion to empower you, to discover and express your best self as you create the life that you love She is an award winning transformational coach, international speaker, author, and minister, who has helped thousands create a path for living their dream life.

Christie:
So let’s go ahead and dive into today’s episode. All right. Welcome Felicia to the show. It is my honor to be here today. Christie thank you for having me. Yeah, my pleasure. I’m excited today. So let’s, let’s dive into what got started in your line of work.

Felicia:
Yeah, so, so like many of us, right, that we were given a, a blueprint of life that was so dependent on survival and lots of circumstances in my background of, you know, having growing up in a home where there, there wasn’t a level of skill that would nurture that create a part of you, right? That, that, that possibility part of you. And so life is hard. You know, that there was it, my, my perception of life became that in order to be successful, it was hard work arduous.

Felicia:
You had to earn it and don’t expect too much. And so my life began to organize according to what my blueprint was, what I, what I expected from like what my assumption was. And, you know, it was, I don’t know what happened, why all of a sudden it was something that woke up inside of me. It was 22 years old where I said, there’s gotta be a better way that I don’t think this is how we’re supposed to live. And it, you know, it, they say when the, the teacher, when the pupil’s ready, the teacher will appear, it was in that ripe place of possibility that fertile ground of wow.

Felicia:
What if this really could be different where I then began to hear there’s different ways of being different ways of imagining for myself, developing a different way of being with what I call infinite intelligence, the stream of intelligence that woke us up and woven into existence began to see that there truly was a Spiritual Success System that as I applied it consistently cause me to be different in the world, different with myself, different with the others, different with this energy and my life transformed. And I began a deep study of how did I do this?

Felicia:
How did it work? And I came up with a code and that as I continued to work the code in my own life, it just keeps exponentially getting better. And I just became unfired with helping other people realize there really is a different way of living. And it’s not just conceptual. It’s not just inspiring, you know, because a lot of people, yeah, I believe this, and they get all inspired, but the breakdown happens in, okay, how do I take this? And actually apply it where I see a difference. So I’ve been able to help people really break it down and apply it where they are noticing a difference in them. And they are actually seeing a difference in their lights. So I’m just like, I’m fire with helping people with this.

Christie:
That’s awesome. I can definitely feel your enthusiasm for thousands of miles away right now. So I’m okay. So very the Spiritual

Felicia:
Success System I don’t know if that’s the name of it. That’s what you just called it. So break that down. What what is the system? Yeah, so it’s, it’s what I call my paint by numbers Spiritual Success system. So, so there’s a couple of foundational pieces before we actually get into the system. So, first of all, it’s to understand who we are as these breathtaking, amazing creative beans, it’s breathtaking our creative capacity, that we are, who we are designed to keep expanding and creating. It has built in to our design and that we have all been given this amazing creative gift.

Felicia:
It’s when, when you think about it, so what is that creative capacity? And many people have heard this. This is not going to be new, but I’m going to take it a step back. So our creative capacity is our thinking capacity. We are the only species on a planet that we are aware of that has the ability to consciously choose the images that we mentally rehearse in this faculty of our imagination and have the ability to consciously generate feelings that we want to feel before our facts necessarily give us permission. Those are our two superpowers, because those are ability to imagine. And our ability to generate feelings has an energy to it.

Felicia:
This energy has a frequency to it. This frequency then becomes like the conversation with this invisible Field around us, where there are waves of unformed energy hanging out with quantum physics called superposition, excuse me. It then organizes according to the predominant frequency, based on your thoughts and your feelings that you are emitting. This also becomes the magnetizing field around you, that you, you are a magnet. So your, your, your communicating and your magnetizing, many people refer to this as mindset. I think I say that it’s way beyond mindset.

Felicia:
It’s a state of being, it’s the full state of being, and here’s the thing I want to invite people to think about it. Cause people saying, Oh my God, it’s a mindset. It’s a mindset. It’s a mindset. Yes, that’s an element of it. But again, its full state of being. And when we back off for a second and just contemplate that there was an energy there, it was a power that so loved us that gave us this capacity, this amazing gift to consciously and intentionally create. It would absolutely take our breath away. And we would dedicate our lives to learning how to use the most potent energy in a powerful, effective, intentional way of understanding that this is the way that we bring our highest contribution to the people around us, in our world at large.

Felicia:
So the right. So if we understand that than we realize, okay, so there is a system here for step is to design your dream, get really clear about what is it that brings you most alive. If we really believe our thinking is what causes our results than we would realize that we want to be so mindful about what are the mental pictures that we are rehearsing in the theater of our mind, according to the words of Joseph Murphy, and you would begin to start playing with the most potent powerful holiest of our questions, which is what would I love understanding that it is love itself seeking expression and what are those pictures that define that life?

Felicia:
That when you are in the presence of it, you come alive when you see it, all right, so you have the image. Now the purpose of your dream is not to get that. You don’t get a gold star when you get it. The purpose of your dream is to invite you to discover more of who you are created to be it’s the catalyst for our own transformation. So the first step is to design your dream. And the second one is to build a relationship with your dream and what the person who created that dream. So the step is we relate to your result. You learn how to literally zip yourself into the skin of the woman.

Felicia:
Two of us are women and men who have already created that as you’re doing that, you are stepping in to your best self witch. At this point, you are now beginning to express increase. The purpose of our dream is to grow us and to grow our capacity to express increase. So that’s step number three express increase from that state of beam. You now have access to a whole nother level of creativity, intelligence, and you’re receptive to ideas that are always here, but now you can see and hear them. And so the four step is to activate your brilliance. You’re activating your innate brilliance.

Felicia:
And as you are in the state of being, not only can you hear the ideas that you can consciously and consistently take those actions that are required, wow, here’s a key piece to this opening your arm’s in order to make Wellcome this new level of abundance that seeking expression through you. And then the final step is to have somebody there in your corner mastermind with a partner, with a mentor. But the, the, the fist step is a mastermind component that we’re not meant to do this alone. That we want somebody who believes in us who’s walked ahead of us, who understands how to do it and have a wavering conviction that absolutely we can do this.

Felicia:
All right. And so the sixth Step right, there is a six step rinse and repeat, I got to come up with a letter to go with the acronym. Cause you came up with a six step, which I love. It’s a rinse and repeat rinse and repeat this over, over and over and over again because you want to hold steady state that new way of being in order to stay in this consistent conversation with this field around us. That’s it. And then the other,

Christie:
I love it. It’s brilliant. Okay. So I’m on our previous conversation. We were talking about a little bit about Universal Laws so how does the knowledge of, or awareness of, and putting into practice the universal laws? How does, how does it affect the system? Are, does it not?

Felicia:
The whole system is based in Universal law. It, this is a universal law, right? Our, ah, the law of creation that are the law of thinking our capacity to consciously choose images here’s and here is so, so that piece of how we are the organizing pattern as we are in a relationship with this field of energy, it’s that Universal field that we are in a relationship with. And, and there’s, there’s, there’s a law of creation that this is how we create. And you know, oftentimes people will say to me why, you know, I believe this and I understand this and they then make decisions based on what’s going on outside of them in that moment.

Felicia:
They’re there, there they have conceptually understood it. But if we really understand it, we are applying it even in the face of things happening out here that are contrary to where it is that we want to go. And what is it that we want to create. So when we understand that there is a law governing our results, then we become committed to working with an intentionally people we’ll say to me, why you don’t have time to vision. I don’t have time to vision. You know, that’s like saying they don’t have time for gravity. It’s like, you can’t turn it off. We’re all on the law is we’re always visioning.

Felicia:
You’re always wanting mental images. You’re always generating feelings. You have an organizing pattern. You are always identifying with something that then becomes the way you move in the world. And it’s the way that this energy then organizes is for you. And it’s the experience that you create. That’s the law that’s law that, that no matter how much we wish it were different, you know, no matter how much we wish that if we just went out here and could rearrange our world out here, then everything would be okay. It’s like saying, I want to suspend gravity long enough to get my Steinway piano off the 10th floor, down to the bottom floor where it can just float down and it can be easy.

Felicia:
We laugh at that, right? We know that. Of course that’s never going to happen at least in that in a three-dimensional world. But it’s because the gravity is a law of electricity is a law of the same way with our thinking that if we really believe that our thinking has power, that we understand that there is a consistent law to it and we can’t make it do what we want it to do. Just like we’ve had to learn how to use gravity for a plane to take off. We have to learn how to work with this law effectively, intentionally in order for us then to create the Life, that’s actually seeking expression through us.

Felicia:
It’s not even in our life that we’re seeking to express and create it. So it’s a busy life force itself seeking expression through us. And the more we can understand, what is it to work intentionally with this energy? The more that we are in alignment, in compliance with law,

Christie:
I love it. That’s awesome. So, okay. You said the whole key to this system is actually applying it. So let’s talk about that. How does one go about applying the system? Can we have some real world examples or some tips on how we can integrate some of this? We need an action plan so we can not just listen here, but actually do something after this.

Felicia:
Yeah. And, and this is where the mastery comes in, right? Because it’s, you know, so here’s the mistake that people will make. I would imagine Christie that your, your listeners have creative vision boards. They’ve written a vision. You know, many people will come to me and they’ll share it. You know, I visualize in the morning I I’m in meditation and I’m visualizing. And the mistake is that people think that that’s enough. It’s like, okay. I visualize now I’m going to put my vision inside. And I’m going to go into my daily world. We remember how, what we’re seeing in how we’re feeling is the organ. That is the conversation. It’s the conversation with this invisible field around us, thinking about your vision now, and then occasionally first thing in the morning, it’s not enough.

Felicia:
You have to now literally put yourself in it. Like, like, you know, I talk about zipping yourself into the skin of the person who is living that life now, before your facts give you permission. So you ask, so there’s some very specific questions to work with. If I really, if this really happened, if this, if this result like, you know, many of the people that I have the honor of working with their building out businesses, or, you know, wanting to really bring their best to the places where they’re working or they want, which fulfilling relationships in the face of challenging relationships, the mastery work is to ask if this were working out the way that I wanted it to, how would I feel?

Felicia:
So in the middle, let’s say that, you know, you’re having a disagreement with your beloved and, and, and there’s been an ongoing pattern of that. And you just wished it were different. Oftentimes people will go to a God of he, or she would just change. Then I would be okay, everything would be fine. Right? And so in that moment, what you are expressing, and the conversation that you’re having is that this is not what I want. As you work with this, you want that clear picture of what it is that you do want. And then you ask, if it worked out, how would I feel? And you would feel grateful, loving, fulfilled, abundant, you know, your building, not a business.

Felicia:
And, and, and your facts are not to your preference. And you have your dream. And you ask if this all worked out, how would I feel? And even when you’re working with facts that are not to your preference, you are causing yourself to generate gratitude in the situation you’re causing yourself to generate. And I’m using the word generate because it connotes the fact that we have the ability to actually cause ourselves to feel that are feeling is not depending on what’s going on outside of us. It may sure feel that way. But in reality, we have the ability in any given moment to generate a sense of fulfillment, generate a sense of a deep Contribution that generate a, a, a sense of abundance.

Felicia:
And so when you are making the phone call answering the email shaking, somebody’s hand, you are in the moment saying, what is my state of being right now? And this is where that mastery work comes in, because you want to notice if there’s that, that kind of a clutch of, Oh my God, you know, it’s a business name. This has gotta work. I gotta, I’ve got a bill. I gotta pay. I got to get the money coming in. That’s where you want to literally breathe into your being in saying, Nope, I’m the person who did this. And right now I’m generating gratitude. I’m generating service. And you caused yourself to come back to it in this moment.

Felicia:
The second question that you ask yourself, if it all worked out who was in this circumstance and you put on in many people refer to it as your future self. So they, you know, it’s not my word, but you put on your future self. My words are, use zip yourself into the skin, to that person. And you ask, how did that person walk in the room? How did that person have this conversation? And you’re going to sit up when you see the images of your desired result. And you ask that question, you are going to set up a little taller. The tone of your voice is going to change a little bit. There’s going to be a more of a solidness in your being.

Felicia:
And you are going to magnetize very differently coming from that state of being than from the place of, Oh my God, I hope this works. So it, and then there’s the rinse and repeat bet. Right? And so it’s, it’s, it’s asking who am I being in one of my feeling in this moment that matches my desired outcome. And again, the beauty of that is that that’s when you bring in your best self, that’s how you put yourself into an even better version of yourself where now you’re serving deeply. And when we’re in that state, you’re a person of increase.

Felicia:
And when you’re a person of increased, you can’t chase increase the way. So there are some very practical ways of applying it. And then the other thing, Carrie, your vision with you, I put it in your purse, put it in your pocket, put a couple of words and an index card to help remind you to bring you back into that state of being in order for you to keep having that image, to be able to mentally rehearse. Obviously there’s a whole bunch of more that I walk people through, but I think that those are some key things that people can get started with.

Christie:
Yeah. That’s awesome. So you say, you know, walk around with your vision, you know, what, what is on your vision? Is it I’m curious, would you, would you share it with us? I would like an example, or maybe you can just, if you don’t want to, you can just, you know, speak off the cuff. Here’s an example of one, but what does it look like? Are we carrying around a vision board? Are we,

Felicia:
Yeah, so it, so it can be a combination of both, but you know, you could take a picture of your vision board, right. And put it on your phone, but w D so there’s two energies, two States of being that I invite people to enter into in your writing your vision. So the first of all, I have people physically write it out. The reason why you want to ride it out is because one of the, the, the, the work that I do with people is that we do, what’s called calibrated. Every word has energy. And so you want words that when you read them, you feel your whole being come alive and the presence of it, that there’s an, there’s an expansiveness to it. So I encourage people to literally grounded in gratitude.

Felicia:
I am so right. The words I’m so happy and grateful now that then you want to write it as if it’s already happening, present in past tense. It, it, it, it in a, in a more realer way, and there’s a better way of saying that, but that it becomes more tangible for you. You can hear the difference when people talk about hoping seeing their vision off in the future and, and treating it as if it’s happening now, because in the invisible realm, it’s already here, everything required for your vision is already here.

Felicia:
You just gotta become the match in order to have it literally come out of the invisible and to start forming in the three dimensional. So I’m so happy and grateful now that, and then, you know, whatever, and I encourage such a rise. It. So, so for me, you know, it’s a well, so I’ll use an example of a vision that came true. So I’ve had a, a, a, a deep desire to want to raise enough money for a, a, an organization that I’m deeply committed to.

Felicia:
And order to get invited to go to Africa, you have to raise a certain amount of money in order within a certain amount of time in order to go to Africa, whether it’s you giving personally or your you’re raising, raising the money. And at my events, I do a combination of both. And so, so I kept seeing myself getting the call from the director as an, an invitation four going to Africa. And it was, it wasn’t last fall. It was the fall before last, where I had, I had raised in a relatively short amount of time, right. At $50,000 for this organization. So I surpassed what, what the requirement was.

Felicia:
And I remember getting a call and said, Felicia, we just wanna thank you. And this is not the reason why I’m doing it right, but we want to thank you so much. And, Oh my gosh, and Andy, and, you know, I was mentally rehearsing that conversation. And so when it actually happened in the woman’s name was Rachelle, and she said, and we’d love for you to come to Africa. You know, that you get yourself over there and we’ll take care of everything after that. It was just, it was like, all right, here’s the evidence. And it was such a confirmation, right? And we get these confirmations over and over and over again that not only does it work, but it represented who I had to grow into in order to be able to allow that.

Felicia:
And then most importantly, Christie the impasse, you know, whatever we’re doing, the impact that we’re having. So the, the vision I’m so happy and grateful now that I was able to grow my business in such a way that I was able to generate revenue impacting the lives of others while increasing my ability to contribute highly to this organization, to such a degree, as evidenced by the fact that I got an invitation to go to Africa. And so just super simple, very streamlined, very clear, you know, I had with that look like, you know, that snapshot of getting the phone call and celebrating with it.

Felicia:
So it’s the line. And then you want to be able to, so that was one piece that was written. And then you want to actually be able to mentally, sensorized the image where you are literally moving in that image. And I just kept rehearsing it. I’ll never forget. I was in salt Lake city downtown Why. Now that wasn’t on my vision, right. I didn’t know where I was going to be, but I was downtown salt Lake city. I was speaking there and phone rang. And I, I didn’t recognize the number. Sometimes she wasn’t programmed into my phone and it was like, Oh my gosh, I just, I remember tears coming into my eyes. So that’s an example of a, what is the vision I’m going to Africa yet?

Felicia:
I gotta get, I gotta get that on my, in my vision where I’m actually in Africa. It just, it was just, I’ve got the call to go because I, I, I was able to raise the money in order to have that kind of impact.

Christie:
That’s amazing. Now that you’ve done that, what’s your next step? Are you going to update your vision or,

Felicia:
Oh, my vision is always updating. Yeah. So, so, so when I’m up to now is really increasing my capacity to serve the dreams of others by doing it in a much more expansively digitally. So we’ve got a goal in my company. We have a vision of impacting a, a, a a hundred thousand people around the world and helping them wake up to their brilliance, their capability, their possibility. So in my mind, it’s like it, again, you want to snap-shot that you are mentally rehearsing. That there’s an image that I play with, that I’m getting with my team.

Felicia:
And we’re looking at the analytics and we’re, we’re looking at the number is growing. And, and we see all the different ways that we’ve impacted that a hundred thousand people. And, and we’re, you know, we are able to meet in person again, and we’re in a restaurant and we’re raising a toast to the amazing growth that we, as a company has experienced the personal growth at everybody on my team needed to grow into in order to allow that, and we’re toasting our achievement and the impact that we’re making in the lives of others. So again, that’s beautiful. Yeah. Yeah.

Christie:
Well, and all of the two visions, you shared it, particularly, those were really inspiring. And I think that gives people a really good idea as to what their vision needs to include and, you know, as ingredients in a recipe, right?

Felicia:
That’s it. And the thing that I would really support people in doing is noticing where you’re watering it down. Notice where you start back in a way, because the minute you start thinking something more expansively, that’s your life force moving through you, right? Wanting a richer for your fuller expression by means of view. There’s a part of you that wakes up and will do everything it can to keep you status quo. And most of the population is not aware that this is what is going on. It becomes well, here’s, what’s realistic. This is what’s logical. And they start letting their, their, what I call condition-based thinking their logical thinking, their practical thinking chip away at what is it that they really want, which actually turns the flame down on their desire.

Felicia:
It waters down your desire. And if you have a watered down desire, you will not have the steam required to do what you need to do consistently in order to achieve it. And it’s just not as much fun. You won’t go full board for a watered down dream. So just pay attention. It’s so subtle. It’s so subtle where people just, and without even realizing, just, you know, tweak a little there and back off a little there until they got, yeah, it’s good. It’s good. We are not meant to live a good life. We’re meant to live an abundant, rich, fulfilling life.

Christie:
Well, how does, that’s a good, that’s good that you mentioned that pitfall. So how do people, how do people get to a vision that really inspires them and excites them? And, and that’s not bound by the rational and logical thinking. I mean, I would imagine if someone was coming up with a watered down version, they might not even recognize it.

Felicia:
Well, most people don’t like it. And the other thing is, is that people will start visioning and they’ll think that there’s, they see a way that the one way that it’s gotta be done and it’s like, I won it, but I can’t do it that way. Right. Like, you know, I had a client who thought that this was what she wanted, but Oh my God, all she could see was working 60, 70, 80 hours a week to do it. So the first thing that I’m going to suggest is do what I call, put the How on hold, because what happens is, is that people start looking at, how am I going to do this? And that’s what begins to water it down, to put it on home, put that on home.

Felicia:
And then I encourage us and the hears. So here’s what we did together. I encourage you to just stay in the question. What would I love? What would I love and give yourself permission to start playing with images in this faculty and the playground of your imagination and test it when I am imagining that like, when I’m walking through the routine of that life, because our dream has a routine to it. And when I, when you start imagining, like right now, this is my routine, getting a hang out with with amazing people. Like you, you’re part of my dream routine though. Your dream has a routine to it.

Felicia:
Right. And when you’ve, when you start playing in the routine of your dream, pay attention, do you come alive and the presence of it, or are you making it work and you want to keep a leaning in and challenging the part that starts constricting. So, yeah, but what if it could be different? What if, what if I could do this and what it could happen this way over here and you’re, and you’re documenting, you’re noting all along and staying with it. Christie we did, I did this with this client, Becky, until she was able to actually create her desired result and building out her Business working 20 hours a week.

Felicia:
She was working 20 hours a week. So she grew it working 20 hours a week, but we had to keep leaning in and challenging the part that was saying. Yeah. But yeah, but so it’s the development of the skill of noticing when the habits come up and, and you stay with it. Yeah. But what if I could, and here’s the other thing, this is not a lightweight question. You’re not gonna sit down in a couple of hours and flesh it out and all of a sudden have your vision. So one of the reasons why that, you know, the people that I work with, we just keep digging in to the layers of it. Because the more aware you are of how this really works, the more you’re able to see in those subtle places where you’ve backed off for a water to down or made something, okay, that’s really not.

Felicia:
Okay. And it is, and, and it’s a, it’s an ongoing, a learning process to be able to really hear and notice what is the dream that brings me most of the life. So to be patient with yourself as well and stay with it.

Christie:
Yeah. And I think what you demonstrated there in that example is the either or thinking that we’ve all grown up with, we’ve been conditioned to accept, and it really can be. And in both thinking, you can have this and that you don’t have to compromise.

Felicia:
That’s the thing, right? And we really understand who we are and how we are connected to this indescribably powerful, creative force. That’s moving through us. And the deeper we go in that relationship, you know, that sense of communion and companionship. And here’s the spiritual element of it, right? The communion and companionship with the very power that will this into existence and woke us up this morning. The, the more at home you feel in the question, what would I love? And the more you’re able to recognize where you’re with holding yourself and you’re withholding Love’s presence by making good enough be good enough or holding back.

Felicia:
And what is it that you really want? Because again, when we understand that our desire is not our desire, this is not our, to the universe. It’s the universe is prayer to us. And when we get that, we understand that we have a stewardship and an accountability to really paying close attention to that, which brings us most alive. And you want something that scares you to death and takes your breath away all at the same time, because now you’re playing with the big boy or the big girl’s, you know, now you’re playing on the playground, have this amazing, expansive possibility.

Christie:
Yeah. And you’re thinking without limits, you’re thinking in that realm of abundance and a lot of people think abundance just means money. No abundance means absolutely no limits. It’s that thinking? That’s where that lives.

Felicia:
Yeah. That’s it. And having a clear image sets a definition for You that will then inform who you need to grow into. And, and so one of the things that I encourage people to do is say, this is something even better still ’cause sometimes people say to me, yeah, but I don’t want to live in the universe. It’s like, okay, your, your unlimited, where you wanna travel, but you got a point the car and some direction, otherwise it was just going to end up sitting in the driveway. So, and once you get there and you decide, you want to do something different than turn the car and you get to Mexico and you were like, Oh, well, you know why they don’t want to go to Mexico. I’m going to go to Canada. It’s like, all right, you can just turn the car around, but there’s gotta be some definition somewhere.

Christie:
Yeah. I love that. Yeah. I had a coach that would, it would talk about That this or a better, you know, in, in ways that are pleasing to me, because, you know, I, I’ve kind of like how she put that in and under grace in perfect ways, which I think she got from Florence, Scovel, Shinn. It’s like all of these little phrases that just, you know, it allows you not to limit The.

Felicia:
Yeah. That’s it, that’s it. Yeah. I know. I didn’t know her obviously, but that’s, that’s the, the tradition, what she wrote as a tradition that I’m ordained in, have a church of 15 years before I get into this new thoughts of unity. That’s right.

Christie:
You know, I interviewed someone else who belongs to that church and you have to look it up as interview Michael Taylor, episode 14, I think on masculinity and yeah. Yeah. I Napoleon Hill Florence, Scovel, Shinn. Like a lot of people haven’t heard of Florence, but she’s write back in those days of Napoleon Hill with when the new thoughts

Felicia:
Starting to formulate. Yeah. Late 18 hundreds until like the 1920s and thirties.

Christie:
That’s right. It’s amazing. Isn’t it? Over a a hundred years. Yeah.

Felicia:
Yeah. What’s so powerful. When you think about it is that they were writing about understanding that there wasn’t a creative energy and That, and, and the power of our thinking in relationship to this energy before there was any, any quantum physics to really back in the, of this. So they just, they knew, right. That Napoleon Hill new walls, why are those generally barren Thomas Troward, Charles and Myrtle Fillmore who found that the unity movement, they had a sense of it. They knew, and they wrote about it. And, and it’s the foundation of what’s called, you know, mindset work or law of attraction work now.

Felicia:
Right.

Christie:
Right. Yeah. That’s amazing. It’s like nothing new. Right. It’s been around

Felicia:
And then you can go even further back. Right. So the reins and teachings,

Christie:
Right? Yeah. That’s right. Okay. So let’s, let’s go back to your six steps again. Is there a major pitfall that you would like to share of about any one of those six steps?

Felicia:
Yeah. And I, and I, I referred to it earlier. The pitfall is the lack of consistency that there’s a, a, a need to stay constant with the image and feeling that it can’t be in now or then thing. But it’s, it’s a process of literally training yourself to be in the beingness in any given moment in order to be able to be that organizing pattern. So it’s, I call it’s the difference between episodic manifestation and to transformation that people will play with this and manifest the house are a parking spot.

Felicia:
Or even as I go on, I believe in this, I manifest in such-and-such, you know, my husband three years ago or whatever, like it stopped. Right. And so the pitfall was thinking that you can pick it up and put it down. It’s episodic under the, the, the understanding is that it’s always working or always in a conversation with this invisible energy. And so the more you’re able to know your dream and your desire and stay steady state, the more consistent and reliable you are working with law. And here’s the other important piece with this. The more you’re able to truly be in the experience of it, not just get it, but you’re able to truly experience it.

Christie:
So would you consider yourself a law of attraction teacher or is that

Felicia:
The one element of it? Right. It’s the one that everybody recognizes, but you can’t pull an, and it’s actually a misnomer because it’s actually not the law of attraction. That’s an effect. Your, what you are attracting is the effect of the real law is the law of vibration. But, but there are there, you know, there’s a law of reciprocity. There is the law of sacrifice. There’s the law of obedience. There’s the law of thinking. I mean, there’s, there’s a number of laws that we work with, but that’s the one that has gotten the most part.

Christie:
Yeah. So, so what do you call this? What does this called? When you say this, what do you mean? Like, meaning like living in this kind of, Life like,

Felicia:
Oh, mastering these teachings. I mean, I agree. I think, you know, the law of attraction, it’s just one law, there’s over a a hundred Universal Laws and that’s how this whole matrix that we live in is engineered. We have, we are living by those. Laws like the law of gravity. I mean, that’s not one of the laws I’m referring to, but it’s like, it’s their weather. You do you think, you know, you can bypass it or not. It’s still there. Right. That’s it. So, so what would I call it? I don’t know. That’s a real, I’ve never thought of that. Like, what’s your big idea. Yes. So, all right. So the big idea is that we are all meant to live lives, that we absolutely love it. So I would call it the recipe to create a life that you love as your highest contribution to the body of humanity.

Felicia:
There you go. There’s a title of our episode, right there. That’s beautiful. Well, Felicia, this has been a pleasure. Why don’t you tell people how they can learn more about you? And then let’s have you finish this off on a last little nugget of wisdom, a final thought that you have to share. Yeah. So go to my website. Felicia Searcy dot com. I’ve got some goodies there that I love to share. Obviously I’ve got a stuff that I love to pour into. You you can just read what I’ve got and then sign up for one of my free gifts, you know, and it’s just, you know, there’s, I put lots of stuff out just to support you in really coming alive in the thing that you are meant to truly bring forward.

Felicia:
So the last piece of wisdom would be to trust your desire, trust your desire, because it’s, Life knocking at the door of your heart, calling you into more and to understand the power that we wield, trust your desire, and to trust your imagination. When you can learn to trust your desire and your imagination, there’s not a single thing in your world that will have more power will have power over you. That is where your power resides and your desire in your imagination.

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