Today I’m speaking with Jennifer Urezzio who is master intuitive and the author of the best-selling book, Soul Language: Consciously Connecting with Your Soul for Success. She helps highly creative individuals with resolving blocks in their creative process so that new opportunities can be received and created.

In the episode you’ll hear: 

• Why knowing your soul language will help you communicate more effectively, work better with your team, and achieve your goals
• The one technique Jennifer uses regularly to realign her energy quickly
• Her #1 recommendation she has for highly sensitive people and empaths
• What blocks you from attracting money and manifesting what you want in life 
• The experiments to run if you want to see if your divine support system is really there
• The fun little game you can play with yourself to rewire your brain to focus on the present

If you’re inspired by this episode, I’d love to hear your biggest Aha! moments. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @christieturley!

LINKS:

Jennifer’s book: Soul Language: Consciously Connecting with Your Soul for Success 

Jennifer’s Website, Instagram, Facebook & Twitter

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Transcript:

Christie:
Welcome to the mind muse podcast. I’m your host Christie Turley, and today we’re going to dive into a couple of subjects about creation and creating what you want with the universe, as well as a new personality tests, if you will, but for your soul. And Jennifer has come up with a 107 different types of Soul languages, and she is going to be talking to a little bit about that. If you’re a fan, a personality test, like I am, I love, I love, especially like Myers-Briggs any a gram human design.

Christie:
There’s several others out there that other people who have created a like Sally hags, Hogshead, excuse me. So Sally hogs heads fascination advantage, Roger James Hamilton’s wealth dynamics. There’s a lot out there that are, that are really, really fun. And Jennifer’s work about Soul. Language is probably the most deep that I’ve seen. So I’m really excited to dive in to that. Jennifer is the a best-selling author of a few books, including Soul Language and a little book of prayers. And she’s a master intuitive.

Christie:
You’ll see some of those skills coming out in today’s Podcast. And she believes that when you know your Soul Language, you can discover your mission. You can learn how you can consciously or unconsciously use your natural gifts, talents, and abilities. You can develop your intuition. You can quiet those inner critics. You can realize and expand your goals. Become a strong leader, letting go of overwhelm and the I should of known betters and really settle in into a deeper level of faith and trust and experience unconditional love for yourself and others.

Christie:
So I’m excited to welcome Jennifer, Jennifer Urezzio and Jennifer, go ahead and say hello. Tell us a little bit about yourself.

Jennifer:
Hello. I’m so excited to be here. Thank you so much. I have a specialist in helping people connect with their soul through a paradigm. I created called Soul Language. It puts tangibility to Soul so we can really have a conscious connection so we can create from a place of wholeness and completeness rather than pain, suffering and pattern. So,

Christie:
So that’s awesome. Now, what would it look like if someone is creating from pain and pattern, and I forget the other thing you said, but what would that look like in your life?

Jennifer:
So let me give you an example. So about 10 years ago, I lived in our apartment and the walls were really thin and the woman downstairs would have the same argument with different people in the phone. You’re not listening to me. You don’t hear me. You don’t understand. I’m tired of explaining how I’m feeling like I’m not being heard. Same conversation with different people in her life. She was creating from pain and suffering. It’s doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. It sometimes is living in ultimate struggle of lack of feelings of unworthiness. And sometimes it’s just slightly uncomfortable, which things are going good.

Jennifer:
That there’s a feeling inside of you, that there’s something bigger that you can experience more so there’s different discomfort levels, but it’s still coming from a place of pattern for Your and suffering.

Christie:
Very good. Okay. Now let’s do the reverse. What would it look like if someone’s creating from a happy place?

Jennifer:
Yeah, most the time we don’t know it. And that’s a funny thing most the time, you know, we’re kind of in the zone, we’re feeling good. We’re getting what we want were happy. We have bliss, we feel free and we don’t really pay attention to those times because we were just so in it to me, when I create from a place of knowing that I’m home complete, it feels like I’m in a car with the top down and on a highway in the sun, in California with a breeze and my hair, it feels ultimately free. So most people know, and I have a grasp on their pain and suffering, but they don’t really know that they’re happy because they’re kind of just in the zone experiencing it. So if you feel like you’re going over the past again and again, and where are you doing about the future?

Jennifer:
You’re not in that bliss, Spitz space. You’re in that pain and suffering.

Christie:
Yeah. And, and also you’re not really present either know

Jennifer:
Exactly. And I tell people to play the penny game with that. So you get a, a a hundred pennies. Whenever you think of the past, you put a little penny in the past cup, whenever you think of the future, you put a penny in the future cup. And then at the end of the day, they see how many pennies you have. The amount of pennies that you have is the energy that you are actually utilizing to create your presence. And Mo as your president and most people are like, I have five, it’s not a lot of Penny’s to create what you wanted to hear. And now, so your energy and your use of that is divided. And it’s really a physical way of knowing where you’re putting your energy.

Christie:
Oh, I love that. Yeah. We recently had a, a guest on that. We talked a lot about the present and being in the present and also that, ah, the patterns that can emerge as well. Like she was sharing that she learned not to trust women. And so the same women that she couldn’t trust kept showing up in our life over and over until she learned the lesson and for gave the original woman. So yeah, that’s a, that’s a very visual way of, of seeing how much energy you’re putting into the past. And if we’re creating from the past,

Jennifer:
We’re creating from lack. Yeah.

Christie:
Because our brains are wired. Write to remember the negative,

Jennifer:
Our brains are wired to keep us safe. And so anything that’s caused is comfort. It’s going to pay attention to more, to not experiencing that more. So it’s going to set up all of these little patterns in programs to keep us in the illusion of safety. The thing is, is that we can rewire our brains and we can rewire energy. When we tune into our soul, the soul is actually wired to support the here and now to support that you’re whole and complete, but humans are funny and were not really taught that were taught to kind of pay attention to that lizard part of our brain. That goes, okay, where are those? All the exits? Okay. I got to make sure, you know, I’m not being chased by any bears. And since we live in an age, that fear is just so vivid and we tend to be a fear of everything.

Jennifer:
We’re always feeling like we were being chased by that bear.

Christie:
Do you think that when people are watching a lot of television, I’m like the news or shows that kind of trigger that fear, do you, do you, do you feel like that almost makes it more difficult to get out of that?

Jennifer:
Yeah. I think that their pet had paid attention and participating in that mass consciousness of fear. I also think binge-watching is not cool either. I’m telling you about a personal experience. So there was a time where I was been watching the sons of anarchy and I would get up and I’ll be like, I’m so depressed. Nothing good ever happens. So I was like, Oh my God, it’s the sons of anarchy. Like I kept seeing all of that pain and I was actually ingesting it. And that happens to a lot of impacts. People who feel other people’s emotions until they know how to deal with that. Energetically being consumed by the news, being consumed by other people’s feelings is kind of what happens to them on a regular basis.

Jennifer:
So you can feel free to watch the news, but you’ll have to know and separate that energy, you know? Okay. Let’s just turn it in and feel the goodness of, of humanity, the goodness of the world, pay attention to that more. That’s gonna create more than worrying about all of the stuff that’s happening in the world.

Christie:
I kinda, I kind of think of it like this. Like, do you, have you ever heard of the reticular activation system that our brains have? Like, so it’s just a technical term, but here’s what it looks like in real life, you decide that you really like, or you just bought, let’s say, let’s just say you bought a blue car. It’s like a certain brand. And then all of that, and you see that same brand, that same color, even though it was super rare when you bought it. Right. So you keep seeing it everywhere. It’s like your brain is skewed towards noticing that particular object. And, and I kind of think that watching a lot of news is like that to like write, you would say that you attract what you think about.

Christie:
I mean, that’s another way to, to say it right now.

Jennifer:
And I always say, you know, your mind is going to chase whatever you give it to chase. So why don’t we start chasing, chasing enoughness. And when I tell the client, okay, just for tomorrow, just to focus on having to remind, chase that you are enough, they’ll come back and go, Oh my God, let me show you all the stuff that happens, which was always, always they’re. They just weren’t allowing themselves to participate it or to see that kind of being that frequency. So, you know, it’s really about deciding and making choice about how you’re going to utilize your energy, where your attention and the tension or tension is going to do, and really understanding that you are the mastering our own universe.

Jennifer:
How do we want to experience this? Or do you want to experience it through wholeness and completeness or pain and suffering? It’s really up to us and we have to make that choice continuously.

Christie:
So how would someone consciously make that choice? I mean, is it like, you know, spending more time in gratitude? Like what are the, what are some of the ways that we can consciously choose the positive?

Jennifer:
Yeah, I, you know, gratitude’s grade and I think a lot of people do drive by and gratitude, which is, Oh my God, thank you so much for blah, blah, blah. Oh, by the way. So it kind of pauses the system. So I always suggest clients actually work with their own divinity, their own body who, which doesn’t have free will to keep activating that. So you want to try something with me, for sure. So I’m going to say something everyone follows along, but I used words that you don’t understand, just go with it. So here it goes, divine intelligence. Fill me with the feeling of knowing that I am enough, that there will always be enough. And then I experience enoughness and just tell me what you notice.

Christie:
I’m getting goosebumps,

Jennifer:
Right? So if you’re, if you’re activating that on a continual basis, that is the vibration you’re going to be putting out into the world and your external circumstances are going to have to match that vibration. And it took a second. You didn’t have to think about your childhood. You didn’t do spiritual bypass because you’re actively participating in with your heart. And if you keep doing that, your cellular structure is actually gonna change and be geared towards more bliss, more happiness, because that’s the direction you’re you’re engaging with.

Christie:
Okay. So a couple things, spiritual bypass. What does that mean?

Jennifer:
Spiritual bypass happens when people are kind of doing it with their head, but they’re not fully participating with their heart. That’s another way of saying that is lip service. We all know when someone’s just giving lip service, just saying yes. And just nodding their head and not in full agreement. Spiritual bypass is that it’s like, it’s one of those things when I ask the client. So how is everything? Oh, everything’s great. Everything’s wonderful. I’m great in your life. You’re lying right now. It’s okay to miss admit that there’s area of your life. They can use expansion. Eye will be the first to admit to it, right? That’s not being negative.

Jennifer:
That’s actually participating in it. And I think so often metaphysical teachers teach spiritual bypass. They teach that everything’s supposed to be great and care bears and flowers and bubbles. And it’s just not that way. It’s a constant choosing of knowing your home complete. It’s a constant participation. That doesn’t mean that there was anything wrong, but we are human. We have freewill. And the mass consciousness has been taught not to choose that. So we have to make those choices on our own.

Christie:
Very good. I love that answer. And then can you explain a little bit about matching a vibration, like, like explained as if someone’s never heard of a vibration? What does that mean?

Jennifer:
So everything vibrates at a frequency. So this is a really bizarre concept in, and when I think about it, I kind of pause for a moment. It’s like also thinking that we’re on a giant rotating ROC, it kind of freaks me out of it. So nothing’s really solid. Its just vibrating so fast then it looks like it solid, freaky, right? So everything has a vibration or frequency. So let’s just think of it as a radio waves for a moment. So one Oh one vibrates at a frequency or a radio way that you can turn it into it while one Oh two is at a different vibration or frequency and that’s what we need. So there’s lower frequencies that vibrate at a lower kind of energetic fields, which our shame, fear, lack.

Jennifer:
And there are a higher vibrating frequencies, love, peace, joy. And what we want to do is we want to let go of the lower and move towards higher. Now here’s the thing. Most people try to go, okay. I just want to experience joy. And there was no shame. There’s no song that sounds good with just high notes or just low notes. You need the entire scale. But what is really important is that you want to keep evolving your vibration. So it vibrates at a level of what you want to receive. So I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to receive more sham in my life. Right.

Jennifer:
But I know that there’s parts of me that vibrate at shame and that’s okay, but I’m evolving my consciousness to vibrate. I had something like love, peace, joy. And we all know when we have that feeling within us of peace. And next time you were feeling that just tune in and ask your soul, you know, give me an image or a color or a number of this vibration. So I can keep turning towards it. Easy trick, not doing spiritual bypass, but actually making a bigger choice for yourself.

Christie:
That’s really great. So I love what you said too about it’s not, it’s not, not feeling the, the low vibration. I mean, no, one’s perfect. Things happen. You get triggered by something. The point is to heal it, to get passed it. And when you do that, you’re actually evolving your vibration is what you’re saying. And your eye, when I envision a piano, I’m actually kind of thinking like maybe you were playing with like two octaves, right? Like, like, you know, what is it an octave AKA, you know, so you’re playing with these 16 keys and you just keep like moving up the piano and as you’re letting go of these patterns and these negative memories or things that are holding you back, people you’re not forgiving or, or, you know, tendencies to, you know, when you, you re start repeating the same pattern.

Christie:
So as you let those go, you’re actually moving up this year

Jennifer:
Or the scale. Is that what you’re saying? Yeah. I mean, I love that part of the image of the piano and you know, there’s this thing about healing. What we’re really doing is we’re just remembering our wholeness and completeness. We’re turning into that part of us who has never been heard. That’s a whole and complete one of the things that makes me roll my eyes is when someone goes, my sole is yearning or so hurt her crying. And I’m like you said, it doesn’t do that. Your soul is whole and complete. It is your essential nature. It needs nothing. Right. What we’re doing is we’re aligning our human experience would that knowing of the soul.

Jennifer:
So our human experience, some of it has been painful. Some of it’s been betrayal, some of it has been suffering. And when we, when we understand that that is not our essential nature, that that’s just experience that evolution, that moving up, the piano takes place. And then it becomes really freeing. So you can look at this situation and go, Oh, that happened. Okay. I can feel that pain, but I do know deep down inside of it. That’s not who I am. That’s not my essential nature, my essential natures, this, and then the trick is if your whole and complete, you don’t have to treat everyone like they’re whole and complete, even if they’re not expressing it.

Jennifer:
And that becomes a whole new evolutionary game as well.

Christie:
Hmm. Yeah. That’s, that’s probably one of the hardest things we have to do as humans is. Yeah. Except other people as a whole and complete or other divine spiritual beings having a human experience.

Jennifer:
Yeah. Yeah. I think it’s a big growth and a big opportunity for people to evolve and for the world really to change and be a piece because I think true collaboration only can come when we are not condemning someone for their beliefs that we’re really going okay. How do we move to a homeless? And complainant is with your belief and my belief.

Christie:
Yeah. Oh gosh. There’s so many things, so many, so many things in the news. So many things, you know, in life would be solved if we could take that as well.

Jennifer:
Right. Yeah. Agreed.

Christie:
Okay. So how, so you mentioned before about creating what we want. So do you have a process or steps to

Jennifer:
Yeah. Yeah. I think I do. I co-create with the universe, so I do an internal action and an external action. And sometimes they’re like the chicken in the egg kind of thing. But I think the key to really creating what you want is truly understanding what you want. And I think a lot of people think they know what they want, but they really don’t. And I think there also in my experience, they are wanting little thing’s when they don’t understand Shirley, the big thing they want. So what I do is with clients, I go, okay, let’s list out all of the things that you want men, tell me why you want that. And it will always come down to a feeling or an experience. So everything I want in my life comes down to the big one, which is this sense of freedom.

Jennifer:
So I know that that’s my big vision. So I don’t do any task unless it’s going to promote, again, me being in alignment with freedom. So I have my big vision, which is, you know, a life full of freedom and grace. And then I go, okay, what’s the internal action that creates that into tangibility meeting. What do I have to shift inside to receive an opportunity of freedom? And sometimes an opportunity will arise. Here’s a perfect example. So a friend of mine was like, Listen, you’re would be great to Kabbalah. Like let’s just fill out the application. So our next great. I love that idea. So I got the application and they’re like, you have to do a CV or resume.

Jennifer:
And I went on my right, here’s the, the opportunity and freedom restriction, like, how am I going to do that? And what does that look like? And do I have it and blah, blah, blah. And why do I have to do that? Right. All restrictions. Then I have to go to an internal action, which is in either of the allowing, letting go and accepting or an activation, which was turning on something like a super power. So what would I have to accept to know that that resume will be created with ease and grapes? Right. So the answer for me has always the same, the answer, which is I have to know that I’m enough. So then I have to choose enoughness and then I have to decide if I’m going to write it myself or Welcome and someone else to write it for it.

Jennifer:
So there’s, co-creation process of the university’s. I think a lot of us are trying to control every aspect of our lives and not really co-creating with what we want.

Christie:
Yeah. So control, we’ve got to let go of the control

Jennifer:
Lot’s of it. And you had to accept divine support. You’re going to accept that you would love to support it and provide it for it. And I think when it comes to truly being loved in that capacity, where if you could imagine that there’s so much love at your fingertips, there’s so much creative power that you can snap your fingers and have what you want. You have to really be open to receiving that much love and that much power. And as humans we’re really afraid of. And I think that’s also what keeps people actually from co-creating with a universe, that fear of what that really means. Why do you use that power correctly? Am I worthy enough?

Jennifer:
That’s just a couple off the top of my head.

Christie:
Yeah. And will the universe really provide, or is this just a matter of

Jennifer:
Right? That’s one, that’s a big one, you know, and I always go, okay, let’s play with the universe, play with it. And I’ve been using the F the phrase and they were playing chicken with a universe. So, you know, I’m really good at that. I love to play checking with you. I want you to prove that you exist in, you know, who I am. I’m one of the things that I look for proof are the little fluffy things from the dandelions as they blow off, I have to tell you, I see those fluffy things and it will be this thought, like, I’m not enough. And I see one of those fluffy things come by. I’m like, okay, you get it. I’ve seen them driving a color on a highway that has no grass.

Jennifer:
I’ve seen them on my deck, three levels up where there’s not a dandelion in sight. I’ve seen one comes in through my car window through the driver’s side of the passenger side, back through the driver’s side and land on my wallet. And so often we don’t allow for this playing, you know, we’re kind of, you know, the universe and saying, prove it to me. And, and we’re in control. So I always say, okay, let’s do a lab experiment. Right. Let’s, you know, put the universe kind of on test of, without putting too many parameters around it and see what happens is people always come back and go, okay, let me tell you what happened.

Jennifer:
And they’re like, they’re amazed. And it was like, well, you’re never going to stop being amazed. Right? It’s it’s that allowing them a miracle that kind of that when we become Dell to it, I think that we lose our ability in additional ability to create with it. So the thing is, is not to be a fear to be in discovery and to know that you’re free to create and that’s it a dancing, it’s a lovely dance and we get to do as humans.

Christie:
Very cool. So technical question about the dandelion. What is that something you set up beforehand? Like show me a fluffy.

Jennifer:
So I did a, I did a meditation going to be 10 years ago. That was about abundance where I would blow up a little dandelions and they would come back to me tenfold. And so I know that it’s a symbol for me of abundance, you know, but I’ve done it in different ways. I’ve done it driving, you know, going all right, God, I want you to prove to me that you exist. And I want, my father who’s passed on. I want proof that he was thinking about me and you know, that he’s rooting for me or has my back. And so I’m driving and their radio comes on and its a song that my father loved.

Jennifer:
I was like, yeah, yeah. That’s way too easy in reverse. I don’t believe that. So the announcer comes in and he’s like, Oh thanks for all of those requests from the dancing, you know, in the seventies with all those great clubs and it keeps going off from these clubs. And I was like, yeah. And then he goes and brothers three and I almost wrote it off the road. Cause brothers was the name of my father’s bar. I even forgot he owned. And I’m like, okay, like, that’s like, how could I ask him any more proof than that? Like, hello, that was all of the things that had to line up for that to happen like that to me, she goes, I get it. But you know, when we were in fear and we still test the universe, so set up a little labs for yourself.

Jennifer:
So you can build that connection in a deeper way.

Christie:
I love that. I love that. Now earlier you mentioned about being an empath and there could be a lot of people listening today that are empass whether or not they know they are. Can you talk a little bit about that? Like signs are in empath and then like how you deal with that. Like how I’ve heard a lot of people act as if being an empath is, is like a state of being like there a like, Oh, I can’t go out and crowds because I’m an empath. Can you see my eye roll?

Jennifer:
And is that just the noise now? I’m like really you’re in control of everything and you’re going to pull that card. So I think some of the signs that journey and path is you kind of what everyone’s feeling. I’m you can walk into a room and you kind of know what’s going on. You experience a lot of emotions and don’t really know why your feeling it and can’t put a word to it and it, it won’t shift no matter what you do, that means you’re feeling someone else’s stuff. I’m one of those really great signs is going to a casino. And if you don’t gamble or have any urge to gamble and you want to gamble, you’re an impact. I mean, I remember going into casino as a young girl and like paying for a slot machines going like what’s going on in like, I can’t like, I just want to

Christie:
Play like you were hijacked basic, right?

Jennifer:
Exactly. Its that all the time, Understanding where someone is feeling, knowing with their kind of their emotional state. So if you have impact that abilities, it’s not, it’s not a bad thing and you shouldn’t sequester yourself and in your house, you can, you actually need to understand how to use it. So one of the top of the things I tell my impasses, you want to practice Glenda, the good witch bubble from the wizard of Oz. So you want to see yourself in that pink bubble, make sure you cover your feet and your bud because everyone forgets this area and what’s going to happen is you’re going to be able to understand emotionally what’s going on with people but not ingest it.

Jennifer:
And so you’re going to be, it’s going to feel like emotions coming for you. You will understand you noticed it. And it’s, that is another simple thing is to, to do this exercise about measuring where you are. So on a one to 10 level, you ask yourself your emotional state, one being low, 10 being high, and then you put your own, your left arm on your right shoulder. Then you ask yourself again. And if it’s gone down or gone up, you’re holding onto something that’s not yours. And when you notice it, you just offer it back. Just say I sent it back, whoever it is to with love. Some people will tell you, you put it in the ground.

Jennifer:
Are you, you, you send it back and you encode it with love and you process with them. Now, if you don’t really do any of that, it’s not yours. You can’t process it. You just offer it back with love and let them deal with it. And it’s really for him past, you know, it’s really important that you noticed what happens with you in family dynamics, because that’s where it tends to really blossom and understand and you know, really Ted. So me and my mom play Pictionary, you know, and we haven’t played in 20 years, but we would play Pictionary and I would draw a line and she’ll be like, Oh, that you know, empathic abilities.

Jennifer:
Right. And a little mind reading, but we just know. And so its really Understanding, you know, you can’t really process anybody’s emotions on your own. So if you’re feeling like I feel heavy and icky and sticky and I don’t know why you are an impasse, then you just send it back.

Christie:
Yeah. That’s good. Well, okay. Sending it back. It’s just kind of like a mental or emotional

Jennifer:
Feeling. Another thing

Christie:
To not mind like this isn’t mine and just say,

Jennifer:
Or you could go simply that you can ask the question is this mine? And if it’s not, you know, it will stay if it, it is, if it’s, if it’s not, it will leave. If it is, it will stay. So is this mine? I asked that a lot of myself is this mine and I’ll go, Oh, so, and I feel clearer. Okay. And practice it, practice it around, you know, in a meeting where you can simply go like this and that, no one noticed this. And so he can really start to gauge what’s your energy and what you’re ingesting of everyone else.

Christie:
Yeah. It really, it really does take practice. I mean, I feel like I am an empath and I grew up, you know, and I, I would feel all of a sudden horrible. Yeah. And it was like, wait, why, why am I feeling this way? I don’t even know right. In this way nothing happened. And then it would be so confusing. Right. And yeah, not until I learn this, did I really become aware? And I feel like it does take practice to discern.

Jennifer:
Yeah, it does it. And another thing that you can look at it as your central energetic channel. So the tailbone up to the top of my head that central energetic channel should be straight in like a piece of books for getting up where it’ll just straight up. If it’s wobbly or it looks like a piece of cooked spaghetti, you’re going to be participating in everyone else’s energy. So you simply just as divine intelligence, which is your body aligned body and soul align my central energetic channel. So it’s a part of my life purpose and my life purpose alone. And watch it go. I mean, I just felt that snap back into place for me. I have no idea what it was off don’t care. And then there’s this feeling of being solid within your own skin.

Jennifer:
Also impasse will feel like they’re not, they’re not comfortable in their own skin as well.

Christie:
Hmm. Do you know why that is? Or is it just does it?

Jennifer:
I think it’s because they are ingesting everyone else’s stuff. So they don’t really know what their skin is, meaning they, you know, it’s hard to determine what you like, what you do want to move when you’re having all of these emotional responses to everything.

Christie:
Yeah. Like what do you want for lunch? I don’t even know.

Jennifer:
Or you order something in your life. This is not what I want.

Christie:
Yeah. Well, cool. So we talked before this, about co-creating with the universe and any other tips that you have about, about doing that? I mean, like we talked about vibration, like does one need to put themselves into that positive state of vibration before thinking about what they want? Like what, what are some of the techniques?

Jennifer:
So I always like to tell the clients, Listen, your, your putting out to Clair into the universe all the time. Right. And so let’s make some good noise pollution. So what do you want, what do you want to experience? So for me again, it’s freedom. So my noise pollution is I’m free. I’m free, I’m free. I will be having that Lupe in my head at the grocery store while I’m washing dishes, one taking a shower while I’m doing this, just a loop because what that, what you’re declaring, what you’re sending out to the universe is the largest, the most frequent thing that the universe is being directed at. And it’s a very easy tool. And I think a lot of people are, you know, get themselves in trouble with, I got to be in the right position.

Jennifer:
I’m not going to have gratitude. I raise my frequency, blah, blah, blah. And I’ll be like, it can be really easy, you know, just send out some good noise pollution about what you want. You know, if you want a new client, you know, and worthy to receive a new Client, I’m worthy to receive a new Client. I’m worthy to receive a new client because that’s taking up to direction rather than the loop that’s been in your head, either fully conscious of you’re in the loop you might be, or you might not be of I’m unworthy. What am I going to get a new client? I need a new client. If we don’t have a new client I’m going to die. Right. So practice good noise pollution.

Christie:
Well, and not only that, when you have that unconscious loop, it’s like people pick up on that. Like we just were talking about, empathsWhat like, if you’re you said I’m gonna die, but that’s a little dramatic. Right. But like, you know what I mean? Like that desperation.

Jennifer:
Yeah. And that most people don’t have a name for it. Right? So most people go, go, no, no. Why I’m not in alignment with this person, but it just feels off because their words and their internal actions aren’t measuring up, you know? And if you don’t have to monitor our police, everything thought they were in your head, you just had to put a little more consciousness to it, a little more wholeness and completeness, and that’s going to create a great change in your life.

Christie:
Very cool. So one of the things I’ve learned about you is that there’s 5,000 people around the world who have learned and are practicing this Soul Language information that you have. Can you, can you tell me a little bit about,

Jennifer:
I’ll be happy to, so I was asking some really big questions. Like I know my life purpose, powerful healer and teacher service in the spotlight. That’s great. And where are my people? Because I’m really mad. And I kept asking these big questions and I went to a conference, were speaking about essential oils in life purpose. And this woman sent down next to me. We were going to be friends. So I went totally there. My inbox inside vice what and why her and this other woman to cross the way it looks really nice, but I don’t really care if I ever see her again. What is that? And for your divine guidance, I heard Soul Language and I kept asking questions. And what I created was we each have three core energy’s of Soul.

Jennifer:
We call those languages, your mission, how you’ll be known here, and then your social personality, how your soul puffers to go to the light and they can be identified in. Once you have the tangible words to put what you need to get inside of, it allows you to create a conscious connection. It allows you to have a human part of aligning with your soul. And so you can connect and ask questions. So my Soul Language is, Are my mission is as that equalizer balance, how it will be known here, that fuel of that mission has called teacher of integrity. All my life. I’ve been able to see where people are out of the consciousness of what, and then how I prefer to go through life is a graceful warrior, actually moving courage and grace.

Jennifer:
Now, most of my life at war with everything, didn’t create a lot of fun in my life. A lot of pain, a lot of suffering. But when I moved from unconscious warrior, which is making more with everything to conscious, which is, I know I’m only a complete, I never have to take out my sword, but I know its here and I have courage. I had strained. People can have coming to me for truth to help them find courage, to help them find strength. So by understanding and operating from the consciousness that allows people to create a smoother life, to be at ease and grace and in abundance. And so five people in, I think it’s actually even more now are utilizing this tool of consciousness to tune in, to ask questions into a well their consciousness so they can experience what they want.

Jennifer:
So they’re not spending all their time suffering and the in pattern, their spending their time to actually creating everything that they want to receive and being in bliss about it.

Christie:
Love that. So Your an equalizer. And so, so there’s break it down a little bit. You, when you, you went, it was okay, but you went super fast. I know you were saying

Jennifer:
Because that’s so more of the energy in me, but right now is about my mission.

Christie:
I was just going to say, I’m fascinated with like personality tests and like, you know, I’ve probably taken pretty much everyone known to man, this one’s new to me. So it’s, it’s fascinating. So yeah,

Jennifer:
It’s been called the Meyer-Briggs of soul. I love it. So my is about my mission. It’s all about creating that perfect formula balance first for myself and then for others, the teacher of integrity is how I’ll be known here and what fuels my mission. So, and when I was in corporate America, I remember having this conversation with the client who was a relationship expert, who said, you talk to me and I feel like I’m a child on blah, blah, blah. And I got up the phone and I looked at my best friend boss and said, I don’t know much about anything, but I know I can’t make him feel anything if he doesn’t want to be about what he was picking up was my vibration of teacher of integrity, which naturally when people want to be integrity, allows them to take those opportunities when they are fighting that they will attack it or go away.

Jennifer:
And then my soulful personality Language is graceful warrior action, movement, courage, and grace. And that allows me to really move forward really quickly. It has a lot of words, energy, and I’ve had to kind of work consciously with where energy and I love people who have more energy. And I know that’s people that have more energy are now nodding their heads because they know. So it was really a, a deep understanding of about where your energy, how we’re fiercely loyal, loyal, how we never let a man down and how our tendency is to kind of fight her way through, but really being in wholeness and completeness of that energy of myself has transformed my life so much.

Jennifer:
I mean, when I tell clients that I was so angry, I wasn’t allowed to talk to clients that I would ask for a pen and people are like, why are you so aggressive? They look at me like, I’m on crack. Like I know I’m telling you, I was really angry at Matt. And they were like, no, you’re so loving. And you’re so sweet. I was like, yeah, that was all there. But I was unconscious and I was in pain. So by really exploring your three Soul Language is it allows you to go deep really quickly. It allows you to kind of get to the core of issues. So you can really start operating from wholeness and completeness in Soul rather than your experience of any pain and sorrow.

Christie:
Yeah. That’s yeah. That’s so important. And I, I love this phrase, wholeness and completeness. I love it. Well, I mean, what’s the opposite of that. Like that’s how most people walk around on this planet. Right? It’s like some piece of them has broken or, you know, something’s wrong with them or whatever. And yeah, that says it all, like I’m a, you know, when people are perfectionist to, that’s probably, you know, the antithesis of feeling whole and complete, even though you’re striving for perfection, it’s like, you’re, you’re, you’re already there.

Christie:
Like, you know,

Jennifer:
Yes. Well, I think perfectionist energy comes about, Oh my God, let me get it. All right. So I’m safe. So you’ll love me so I can possibly fail. And the question is for an individual experiencing that is, you know, how can you offer yourself so much love that you can still be conscious of the details, but not controlled by them. And I think that opens up a kind of world for someone in the perfectionist nature, they don’t even like to make a mistake, no one likes to fail, but that’s not your essential nature. And that doesn’t mean you were broken.

Jennifer:
And I think so many coaches at their metaphysical, spiritual teachers are our operating principles, not your broken, let me handle you. And my principal is the more I know the less I know. And I know you’re a whole and complete let’s remind you, even if I have to call you every day and go guess what? You’re a whole and complete, guess what? I love you. I have a client who I love bomb. Occasionally I’ll be writing to you to do it now, but I love you in the middle of the sentence. And she’ll be like, because it’s been a really hard for her to receive love. And I remember emailing her or something and I, I meant to write it.

Jennifer:
I like it. And I put it, I love you. And she goes, Oh my God, you did it again. And then I was like, I did it again, subconsciously I really just meant to say I like it. Right. And so it’s really that being open to really receiving the support of the divine and the divine we’ll work through humans. And so really being comfortable, being vulnerable and being open and receiving love. Yeah.

Christie:
So true. It comes easily to some people, but most people like for a really honest,

Jennifer:
Yes. I think most people it’s wrapped up in pain and sorrow and experiences and what is it going to cost me? And what do you want? And it’s about unraveling those, those beliefs and really tuning into the truth. Yeah.

Christie:
So what are, what are some of the other languages like, do you want to talk a little bit about that and how people know what they are like?

Jennifer:
Okay. So you go to a Soul Language practitioner since there was about 30 of us now, and they identify it through something called mussel testing, which is using AR body for your soul’s behalf. There’s a 107 core energy is a Soul. They’re your life languages in this lifetime when they are identified. So some mission language is our pioneer. I’d love Pioneer’s. They forged a new roads, top line, Consciously unconsciously. They’re always going to feel like they don’t have support because they’re always so out in front of another Axiom or a translation, how it will be known here. I was called a nurturer topline right there that when their conscious, they were both a giver and receiver, they’re the ultimate receiving and giving machine unconsciously, they’re nurturing in order to get something they’re over nurturing people.

Jennifer:
Some additional soulful personalities are shepherd, which a Shepherd’s in individuals into protection and love conductor, which is a great one, which highlights the best in everyone, in themselves, Olympian, who I love Olympians. And part of me goes, we don’t really get them because it’s so far moved from everything I am, but Olympians love humans’. They love to identify the divinity and the aspects of humanity and bring those together. You know, when we talked to the Olympians there all about humans there all about seeing the best in them.

Jennifer:
So there was a couple of the, a 107.

Christie:
I love that. 107. Yeah. Wow.

Jennifer:
Yeah. It was a pretty intense process to kind of write up all those definitions,

Christie:
No kidding. Or to even think of them, but, you know, cause that, that takes a high level of discernment to be able to, you know, maybe you received it and you know, in, through your Intuition or whatever, but its like to have a, a 107.

Jennifer:
So what I realized was that I was collecting the information all along. So I would be asking questions and a like a book would fall off my bookshelf and be like, Oh my God, is that a Soul Language? And I would get the feeling of yes. In my body. And then I would ask additional questions. So I was really collecting this information since I was a kid. And so it was intense, but it was kind of like riding a bike down a Hill where you’re like, Oh, that you were like, okay, let’s kind of enjoy it.

Christie:
So you, you were not only took this information and you had a, it sounds like you have coaching and you actually also have taught it to other people so that they are set up with their own coaching business in, in, in the Soul Language.

Jennifer:
Yeah. I w what’s really important with Soul Language rather than like any, a gram or astrology, is that a conscious living, breathing paradigm. So it’s always growing in consciousness. Those definitions are always being updated. And when I teach it to another practitioner, we really go deep in about how they want to utilize Soul Language within their sacred work. So we have Soul Language in money. We have Soul Language in the body and its so it’s not like it really becomes a tool for that practitioner two to utilize their sacred purpose. My sacred is always about connection. I’m always going to be bringing you back to a connection.

Jennifer:
I could be a bartender and being my sacred purpose, sucky delivery system. Wouldn’t love to do it, but I would be being my sacred purpose. So it’s a, it’s a tool that other practitioners use within their own sacred work, which is quite amazing because it, it creates such a way of individuals Connecting to themselves and such a profound way that I haven’t seen anything else. Do that quickly with that tangibility with a principle that’s easy for almost everyone to understand.

Christie:
So knowing your son Soul Language, like, I mean I can begin to see how, if you’ve been stuck in a business that you don’t love or even a job for that matter, you’ve probably not been in alignment with your Soul Language.

Jennifer:
Yeah. Yeah. You know, what what’s happening is is that you’re probably not in alignment with your Soul, your not in alignment with your sacred purpose. And so you put yourself in situations that are kind of reflecting Your pattern or where your pain. I was always doing my sacred purpose in corporate America. I was the answer girl. People would come all over the office and go do you know this? And I’d be like, we live it and they would go out and then we research it and they come back and they go, how do you know that? And I go having to put up with it, right. They were like, totally. You know, that was using my gifts as an intuitive, my connection. But when I really started to go, okay, I can only have one.

Jennifer:
I want, I can be as careful as I want. That’s one of the Soul Language paradigm who came through. So when people are kind of stuck in their job, that they don’t like, it’s probably the, because they are not accepting what they truly want to be in this world. And, and we start with Understanding what that is and then releasing the fear and the pain and the beliefs around that. So they can start listening to their soul and most importantly, acting on it.

Christie:
You know, what just came to me is like the hero’s journey and the hero of the story always has this part where he’s given a call, a calling or a call and there’s always a reluctance like to hear, I don’t want you to do that. Or yeah, I’m not a hero or I don’t want, I’m not up for that, that task. Right. And, and then a guide comes along and helps, helps the hero, move through that and then go through this hole, you know, wonderful transformation and back to real life where they now are themselves.

Jennifer:
Yeah. For once. Right. But the funny thing about that at our lives is that even if it seems like you’re going in at a snail’s pace, you’re always going to eventually come into wholeness and completeness because that’s the evolutionary process. So you can do it at a snail’s pace or you can do it with consciousness, which speeds it up. And I think so often people are so concerned that they’re not going to do it right. That they’re not going to fulfill their purpose, give yourself a break, like let go of the judgment. And now let’s talk about why internal and external changes. Do you want it so you can feel and be, and take action on that rather than putting yourself in all of that judgment and paint.

Christie:
Oh, well it’s like a, like an acorn write it. It knows what it is. Even though it’s this small little thing it’s going to become, it’s an Oak tree, right. A is going to become this humongous Oak tree. And it’s like, we’re all born with the blueprint inside you. No, it’s just, how, how quickly are we going to become aware of what that blueprint is? And then grow into our fullest potential. I think there’s a groove. It’s the saddest they are. I’m going to totally, I don’t even know who said it, but it’s something like the saddest thing about humans is when they don’t realize their full potential or their looking back and they think, huh, you know, I could have, I could’ve done so much more, you know?

Christie:
And so you really knowing having this awareness of your Soul Language, it really helps you to, to blossom.

Jennifer:
Yeah. And it helps fulfill, you know, that knowing I had, it’s a bit of a teenager or about wanting to be highly creative and making an impact on the world. I’d at that time it was photography school because that’s what I knew. Right. So, you know, all of that photography school, corporate America, all of that led to this moment in time. And I don’t regret any of it because it really created some serious, amazing foundations that allowed me to fully open and listen to my soul and take action on it. And I think if you’re going to do one great thing for yourself today, let go of judgment.

Christie:
Mm. Yeah. And I think, I mean, we started the conversation talking about the past and it’s like, you know, thinking about, Oh, you know, or a casting judgment on a particular experience where you failed or you didn’t live up to your own expectations or somebody else’s expectations. You can look back at that, you know, failure as regret. Or you can look back at it as a learning experience because it’s made you who you are today. And instead of just, you know, put love on that and, and gratitude on that and be thankful that you had that experience because that’s how we learn as humans is by making mistakes and failing and skinning our ne you know?

Christie:
Yeah. I always say

Jennifer:
To us, I always say to people, okay, so turn it into your salon as how you were living in your life, purpose, their cars, you were, yeah. I loved that. Well, if someone wants to get ahold of you or learn more about this Soul Language and also about co-creating with the universe, where did they go? Hey, go to Soul Language. U S there was a lot of free audience there and you can sign up for our newsletter. You can follow me on Facebook and Twitter. So Language, and I pick up my own phone and I answered my own email. I know that’s crazy, but I love it. I love it.

Jennifer:
The last thing people want is like, well, let me see my assistant take care of it. It’s like, you know, where are you living in a day and age where it’s like, people crave that connection. Now, the other thing I hate it when websites don’t have any contact information on it drives me bonkers. Are you a real person? I have a real person like, right. So if you have a question, reach out and be happy to answer it. Awesome. That’s so generous. Thank you. All right. Any other final thoughts or final wisdom that you’d like to leave the audience with? Yeah. My final thought is if you knew you were a whole incomplete, what would you be in? What would you do today?